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The difference of my way of discipling children with my mom. I just feel mine is different from hers and i can't follow her way although I have become a good enough child because of her strict discipline.
MY MMOM'S WAY OF DISCIPLINE My mom's way and my way of disciplining children has difference. Real big difference. I love my mom so much and I am not ashame to say that am a momma’s girl even though I was naturally born to be a daddy’s girl. I guess it is what I’ve seen in my mother’s daily life when I was a kid that really made me attached to her. I saw her sacrifices and hardship rearing me and my siblings with less support from the head of the family. haiii poor mom. So now I can understand why she was hard on us especially when it comes to discipline. Mom's way are: pinching (here and there), spanked by the stick (coconut), or belt, and the worst put you inside the sack (rice sack) and tied u on air. When I get that as i child, it is so painful. My heart is hurt more than my skin. I think that started my sensitivity. The side effect of pain inflicted in me stays long and it made me stayed inside my shell. Now, that am a mom myself to a girl who thinks she has her own way and her way is right, is a challenge. I wish I can use mom's way of disciplining but I just can't. Am slow to beatings my child. My way is: shout, scream, hollered, bellowed, and hit the hand. And on top of that -- endless talking! That's all I can do. My daughter grew up with her grandma and I came in later. Now am having problems because she thinks my way is better because it does not pain her. So she never listens to me. She listens more to her grandma because she knew she can receive intense punishment when grandma disciplines her. Well, all i hope is that - whoever disciplines my child, my child will think it is the good for her so she should obey. Not that she will obey because she is scared. Mommyness is really a challenging job but it's an enjoyable job to tackle. |
My Mom's Way
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